Ustadha Sarah Sultan: Learning from the Pandemic
The Coronavirus pandemic took the world by storm and resulted in world transformations we, as human beings, could never have anticipated. This, naturally, led to a great deal of anxiety, stress and overwhelm. While these emotions are absolutely normal and a part of the human experience, Allah (swt) has given us tools through Islam to manage the toll of the uncertainty each of us continues to experience during this pandemic.
The pandemic reignited our understanding of our complete and utter reliance on Allah (swt). Allah is the Almighty, The Most Powerful and The Protector. He is the One who created the coronavirus and is more powerful than it. We rely on Allah’s protection in every moment- from the air in our lungs to the beating of our hearts. Our health is always in the Hands of Allah (swt) but the coronavirus is an intense reminder of this. Allah reminds us of this when He says, “Who has fed them, [saving them] from hunger and made them safe, [saving them] from fear.” (106:4)
Life is constantly in flux and filled with uncertainty. Change and unknowns are always imminent but we tend to imagine we are immune to unpredictability. Coronavirus is a reminder that we’re not. We didn’t know if we’d still be alive right now one week ago; there’s always a level of uncertainty in our lives despite our unawareness of this fact at times.
The heavy dose of uncertainty we are experiencing gives us an opportunity to teach ourselves to cope with this distress and accept what is outside of our control while focusing on working on what is within our control. One of the most powerful tools I work on with my clients in therapy is to help them to sit with discomfort, to tolerate distress and this the perfect opportunity to work on this. This is one of the most significant skills we can develop to allow us to cope effectively, strengthen resilience and increase our patience during times of trial and tribulation.
One of the most powerful ways to increase our ability to manage the anxiety and stress that comes with uncertainty is to shift our mindset. Here are a few practical mindset shifts to change the way you view the current pandemic:
Shift Your Mindset:
- Big Picture: Covid-19 has allowed us to shift our perspective to things that are truly important. Moments like these make us focus on the big picture. We suddenly realize the things that we are willing to forego for health and safety- the things that are truly important to us.
- Reward: Remember, The Prophet (saw) said, “No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that.” {Bukhari & Muslim}
- Strength: Allah grants us the capabilities we need to get through difficulties. Treasure the qualities you can hone during this time. Difficult situations allow strengths we never knew we had to arise because we never needed them before. (i.e. flexibility, patience, etc.)
- Opportunity: What do you have an opportunity to do now that you wouldn’t have had the opportunity to do had all these changes not happened? Spending family time with kids; reading Qur’aan; internal exploration while social interactions are limited (potential for growth); self-care; try new recipes with kids; arts & crafts
- Gratitude: If you can train your brain to search for the good during the coronavirus situation, it will be so much easier to do the same thing once things get back to normal insha’Allah.
- Privilege: Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Look at those below you and do not look at those above you, for it is the best way not to belittle the favors of Allah.”{Ṣaḥiḥ al-Bukhari 6125, Ṣaḥiḥ Muslim 2963}. Look at those who have less than you – those who are homeless right now; those who rely on school lunches for the one meal they have a day; those who have lost work for a while as their employer realizes that money won’t be coming in; those who have to pay for childcare and will have to make difficult choices surrounding this; those who are already lonely and have lost the opportunity for regular social interaction. Everything you’re dealing with right now is a reminder of those who are struggling even more and who struggle even when coronavirus isn’t an issue.
- Acceptance of Reality: Channel your energy in a positive direction rather than fighting against the inevitable. There is no denying that this is happening. Use this as an opportunity to consider other difficult things in your life that you may have been avoiding and choosing to face them and deal with them instead. Allah (swt) granted human beings the ability to be incredibly adaptable- use the fact that you have been able to adapt to everything going on right now as an indication that you can face whatever hardship you’ve been avoiding.